Stick with one item for 30 days. In their very definition, unfair advantages involve accomplishing something that few others do. It is not "unfair".  

Be attuned to actions and behavior, not words.

Reach out to the people you need daily.

Be strongly intolerant of anxiety.  

Play the necessary function.  

Take use of 'laser-sharp presence'.  

Those that succeed get out of their brains and focus on what needs to be done right now. They understand that being present brings about serenity